Is a groups people who are trying to improve their lives.


Being a “shitty father”, is doing what is right for one’s self and not enabling the child or loved one. The club is not exclusive to fathers; it is a club for all who have been put in that place where doing what is right, conflicts with what the addict is attempting to control.  I believe that you can replace “father” with; mother, son, daughter, wife, husband, friend…etc. So, “theshitty fathersclub” is not just for fathers, but for all people who are dealing with others, who are making decisions that will adversely affect the lives that surround them. 

 As a father, it hard for me to watch my child drive their life out of control, but I have to let them make the bad decisions and travel the road they chose. I have to linger the control to them and be there for them, when they are ready, when they ask for help. I have to do, what I feel, is right, not what they want. 

 This is a place for those of us, who have labeled, by a loved one, as “shitty” for doing what we think is best for all those around us. This is a place to conjugate anonymously, and hopefully help each other make the right chooses or just blow off steam.